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Karï¿½csonyi felhï¿½vï¿½saim sorï¿½n azt hangsï¿½lyoztam, hogy hitï¿½nknek figyelmeztetnie kell felelï¿½ssï¿½gï¿½nkre. „Karolj fel egy csalï¿½dot!” – hangzott a felhï¿½vï¿½som hï¿½rom ï¿½vvel ezelï¿½tt. Akkor kezdï¿½dtek a lakï¿½shiteles problï¿½mï¿½k, azï¿½ta a helyzet csak sï¿½lyosbodott. Ezï¿½rt minden ï¿½vben kicsit tovï¿½bbmentem. Tï¿½rï¿½dj egy csalï¿½ddal, de nemcsak anyagilag segï¿½tve, hanem adj neki az idï¿½dbï¿½l. Idï¿½n karï¿½csonyi tï¿½vï¿½mï¿½sorunkban mï¿½r nï¿½gy csalï¿½d mutatkozott be: kettï¿½, aki segï¿½t ï¿½s kettï¿½, akinek segï¿½tenek. Ez hosszï¿½ tï¿½vï¿½, rendszeres segï¿½tï¿½st ï¿½s kï¿½zï¿½ssï¿½gvï¿½llalï¿½st jelentett. Idï¿½n karï¿½csonykor arrï¿½l beszï¿½ltem, ha valakinek ï¿½tszï¿½zezer forint kï¿½rï¿½li havi jï¿½vedelme van, meg sem ï¿½reznï¿½, ha havi ï¿½tvenezer forintot adna egy csalï¿½dnak. Felhï¿½vï¿½somhoz azt is hozzï¿½tettem: hozz helyzetbe egy csalï¿½dot! Segï¿½ts, hogy ï¿½nmaguk is gondoskodni tudjanak magukrï¿½l! Ha az ï¿½risten gondoskodik rï¿½lunk, akkor nekï¿½nk is gondoskodni kell egymï¿½srï¿½l. Szent Jï¿½nos levelï¿½ben ï¿½ll az a gyï¿½nyï¿½rï¿½ mondat: „Ha Isten ï¿½gy szeretett bennï¿½nket, nekï¿½nk is ezzel a szeretettel kell szeretnï¿½nk egymï¿½st.” Vagy mï¿½g sï¿½lyosabb: „Hogyan marad meg az Isten szeretete abban, aki – bï¿½r bï¿½ven van neki, mï¿½gis, amikor lï¿½tja, hogy testvï¿½re szï¿½ksï¿½get szenved, elzï¿½rja elï¿½le a szï¿½vï¿½t? Hitï¿½nk az ï¿½risten gondoskodï¿½ szeretetï¿½ben arra kï¿½telez, hogy mi is segï¿½tsï¿½nk egymï¿½son.

Felejtsï¿½k mï¿½r el azt az ostobasï¿½got, hogy nem ï¿½ri meg gazdï¿½lkodni! A Vï¿½ci Egyhï¿½zmegye fï¿½kï¿½nt vidï¿½ki telepï¿½lï¿½seket jelent. Az ï¿½risten bï¿½zza rï¿½nk a termï¿½fï¿½ldet. Rï¿½geszmï¿½m, hogy falvainkban kell ï¿½letlehetï¿½sï¿½get teremteni a fiataloknak, hogy ne hagyjï¿½k el otthonukat, a falut. Bï¿½zom benne, hogy a mezï¿½gazdasï¿½gnak ï¿½jra lesz becsï¿½lete, a fiatalok megï¿½rtik, hogy a mezï¿½gazdasï¿½gbï¿½l is meg lehet ï¿½lni. Szeretnï¿½m ï¿½ket visszacsï¿½bï¿½tani a faluba. Akkor ott szï¿½letik meg a gyerekï¿½k, az iskolï¿½t nem kell bezï¿½rni. Az egï¿½sz orszï¿½g fellï¿½legezhet. ï¿½brï¿½ndozom egy ï¿½j agrï¿½rï¿½rtelmisï¿½grï¿½l, akik gazdï¿½lkodnak ï¿½s kulturï¿½lt ï¿½letet ï¿½lnek falun. Gondoljunk csak a harmincas ï¿½vekre, Prohï¿½szkï¿½ra. Akkor is gazdasï¿½gi vï¿½lsï¿½g volt.

Ebben ï¿½rzem a felelï¿½ssï¿½get.

Sokat tï¿½prengtem azon, merjek-e minderrï¿½l beszï¿½lni, hogyan veszik majd? Nyilvï¿½n megvannak a korlï¿½tok, de a jï¿½ pï¿½lda biztosan szï¿½mï¿½t. Felvï¿½llaltam nï¿½gy csalï¿½dot, rendszeresen tï¿½mogatom ï¿½ket. Jï¿½vedelmem kï¿½tharmadï¿½t erre fordï¿½tom. Nem megyek kï¿½lfï¿½ldre nyaralni, nem kï¿½ltï¿½k magamra. ï¿½gy ï¿½rzem, ez kï¿½telessï¿½gem. De mï¿½s lï¿½pï¿½seket is tettem. Komolyan tï¿½rgyalunk a Vidï¿½kfejlesztï¿½si Minisztï¿½riummal, hogy egyhï¿½zkï¿½zsï¿½gek is tartï¿½s hasznï¿½latba kï¿½rhessenek ï¿½llami fï¿½ldeket, ezzel segï¿½tsï¿½k a helybelieket munkalehetï¿½sï¿½gekhez. Jï¿½l ï¿½llnak a tï¿½rgyalï¿½sok, ï¿½rzi az ï¿½llam, hogy szï¿½ksï¿½ge van partnerekre, akikkel egyï¿½ttmï¿½kï¿½dhet. Egy mï¿½sik vonalon is elindultunk. Hï¿½rom hï¿½napja szerzï¿½dï¿½st ï¿½rtunk alï¿½, egyhï¿½zi rï¿½szrï¿½l hï¿½rman – a kalocsai ï¿½rsek, a pannonhalmi fï¿½apï¿½t ï¿½s ï¿½n –, hogy ï¿½rï¿½mmel vï¿½llaljuk ï¿½shonos gyï¿½mï¿½lcsfï¿½k telepï¿½tï¿½sï¿½t egyhï¿½zkï¿½zsï¿½gi terï¿½leteken. Rendkï¿½vï¿½l kedvezï¿½ ennek is a visszhangja.

Igen, mï¿½r tï¿½bben jelentkeztek. A plï¿½bï¿½nosok folyamatosan hirdetik a rï¿½szvï¿½tel lehetï¿½sï¿½gï¿½t. Fontos lenne, hogy ï¿½sszekapaszkodjunk. Lï¿½tom, nagy bajban van az orszï¿½g. ï¿½ssze kell fognunk! Milyen nï¿½psï¿½g vagyunk, hogy nem fogunk ï¿½ssze, amikor ennyien tï¿½madnak minket! Rï¿½ kellene ï¿½brednï¿½nk vï¿½gre, mennyit ront a helyzetï¿½nkï¿½n, ha egymï¿½st marjuk.

Egyrï¿½szt tapasztaltam az igï¿½nyt, egymï¿½s utï¿½n kerestek meg kï¿½rï¿½sekkel. ï¿½gy indult 2004-ben a kï¿½rhï¿½zlelkï¿½szi szolgï¿½lat Faragï¿½ Artï¿½r atya vezetï¿½sï¿½vel ï¿½s 14 egyhï¿½zmegyei alkalmazï¿½sban ï¿½llï¿½ kï¿½rhï¿½zi lelkigondozï¿½val. Dï¿½l Gï¿½za atya a cigï¿½nypasztorï¿½ciï¿½ra kapott karizmï¿½t, ï¿½gy indï¿½tottuk el a romamissziï¿½t. Laczkï¿½ Mihï¿½ly atya a gyermekvï¿½delem, a szociï¿½lis gondoskodï¿½s irï¿½nyï¿½ban ï¿½rez elhivatottsï¿½got, amire tï¿½bb diplomï¿½ja is kï¿½pesï¿½ti. Hatï¿½sï¿½ra hozta lï¿½tre az egyhï¿½zmegye a Szegletkï¿½ Gyermekotthont ï¿½s vï¿½llaltuk fel a drogpasztorï¿½ciï¿½t. Farkas Laci atyï¿½ra az ifjï¿½sï¿½gi rï¿½giï¿½s programot bï¿½ztam. Ettï¿½l az ï¿½vtï¿½l indul az Emberhalï¿½sz Ifjï¿½sï¿½gi Missziï¿½, mely tovï¿½bbi ifjï¿½sï¿½gi plï¿½bï¿½niai kï¿½zï¿½ssï¿½gek lï¿½trehozï¿½sï¿½t cï¿½lozta meg. A Jï¿½isten ajï¿½ndï¿½ka, hogy a Vï¿½ci Egyhï¿½zmegyï¿½bï¿½l indulhatott el a Szentjï¿½nosbogï¿½r Mozgalom is.

Lï¿½ttam, hogy a papok nem bï¿½rjï¿½k egyedï¿½l a rï¿½juk bï¿½zott telepï¿½lï¿½sek szolgï¿½latï¿½t. Tudomï¿½st szereztem Bosï¿½k pï¿½spï¿½k ï¿½r ï¿½s Gyulai pï¿½spï¿½k ï¿½r akolituskï¿½pzï¿½sï¿½rï¿½l. Elkezdtï¿½k mi is, mï¿½r a hetedik ï¿½vfolyam indult. Minden ï¿½vben harminc kï¿½rï¿½li lï¿½tszï¿½mban jelentkeznek nagyszerï¿½ fï¿½rfiak, ï¿½s rï¿½szt vesznek ezen a kï¿½tï¿½ves kï¿½pzï¿½sen. ï¿½riï¿½si dolog, hogy odaï¿½llnak a papjuk mellï¿½. A szentmisï¿½n ï¿½ldoztatnak, rï¿½juk lehet bï¿½zni az igeliturgia vï¿½gzï¿½sï¿½t, a szentsï¿½gimï¿½dï¿½s vezetï¿½sï¿½t, a katekï¿½zist. Kialakult a diakï¿½nusi szolgï¿½lat is. A felavatott akolitusok kï¿½zï¿½l tudjuk kivï¿½lasztani azokat, akik nagyobb elhivatottsï¿½got kaptak. Ma mï¿½r plï¿½bï¿½niï¿½kat rï¿½ tudok bï¿½zni egy-egy nï¿½s diakï¿½nusra.

Az ï¿½risten meghï¿½vja az embereket a kï¿½lï¿½nbï¿½zï¿½ feladatokra. A kulcs, hogy mindig talï¿½ljunk olyan nagyszerï¿½ embert, aki felvï¿½llalja az adott terï¿½letet, a szakpasztorï¿½ciï¿½k esetï¿½ben ez valï¿½sult meg. ï¿½vek ï¿½ta mondogatom: higgyï¿½k el, az ï¿½risten mindenhova, a legkisebb faluba is odakï¿½szï¿½tett mï¿½r valakit, aki a vï¿½lasztottja. Meg kell szï¿½lï¿½tani, feladatot ï¿½s bizalmat kell neki adni, de fel is kell kï¿½szï¿½teni a feladatï¿½ra. Ezï¿½rt indï¿½tunk kï¿½pzï¿½seket. ï¿½vek ï¿½ta folyik az egyhï¿½zi tisztsï¿½gviselï¿½k szï¿½mï¿½ra szervezett tanfolyamunk. Ez egy ï¿½thetes kï¿½pzï¿½s, ï¿½ltalï¿½ban negyven-ï¿½tven fï¿½s rï¿½szvï¿½tellel folyik, ï¿½s az egyhï¿½ztanï¿½csban vï¿½gzendï¿½ feladatra kï¿½szï¿½t fel. Idï¿½n Kovï¿½szolï¿½ cï¿½mmel az ifjï¿½sï¿½gi kï¿½zï¿½ssï¿½g vezetï¿½sï¿½re, tï¿½mogatï¿½sï¿½ra szeretnï¿½nk felkï¿½szï¿½teni fiatalokat. Hatvan feletti lï¿½tszï¿½mmal indul februï¿½rban a kï¿½tï¿½ves kï¿½pzï¿½s.

A legtï¿½bb helyen nagyon jï¿½ a kapcsolat az ï¿½nkormï¿½nyzatokkal. Mindnyï¿½jan ï¿½rezzï¿½k, hogy kï¿½zï¿½s a sorsunk, nem szabad elszigetelï¿½dni. Hï¿½la Istennek, az ï¿½kumenikus kapcsolat is gyï¿½nyï¿½rï¿½en alakul. Nagy ï¿½rï¿½m, amikor egy falusi ï¿½nnepen egyï¿½tt vagyunk a protestï¿½ns testvï¿½rekkel. Tudunk tanulni egymï¿½stï¿½l. Nincs katolikus vagy reformï¿½tus vagy evangï¿½likus, mindannyian hï¿½vï¿½ emberek. A mi keresztï¿½ny elhivatottsï¿½gunk abban nyilvï¿½nuljon meg, hogy testvï¿½rkï¿½nt tekintï¿½nk egymï¿½sra.

Van egy kedvenc hasonlatom. A bï¿½vï¿½sz egy hosszï¿½ asztalon elkezd tï¿½nyï¿½rokat pï¿½rgetni. Elindï¿½tja az elsï¿½t, majd sorban eljut a tizedikhez, innen rohan az asztal elejï¿½re, ï¿½s kezdi ï¿½jra onnan a pï¿½rgetï¿½st. Lendï¿½letet ad, nehogy leï¿½lljanak. Magamat ehhez hasonlï¿½tanï¿½m. ï¿½n is folyamatosan rohangï¿½lok, hogy minden program ï¿½letben maradjon. Tovï¿½bbï¿½ meggyï¿½zï¿½dï¿½sem, az ï¿½risten rï¿½vezet minket, hogy az egyhï¿½zunkban leosszuk a feladatokat. Az egyhï¿½zmegye irï¿½nyï¿½tï¿½sa nem egyszemï¿½lyes feladat. Rengeteg jï¿½ munkatï¿½rsam van. Havonta ï¿½sszejï¿½vï¿½nk a pasztorï¿½lis munkacsoporttal, mely tï¿½z-tizenkï¿½t fï¿½s csapat. Itt ï¿½ll mellettem a papi szenï¿½tus is. A cï¿½l az lenne, hogy a plï¿½bï¿½nosok egyre inkï¿½bb papi szolgï¿½latot vï¿½gezzenek ï¿½s egyre tï¿½bb, mï¿½s jellegï¿½ feladatot ï¿½tadjanak a vilï¿½gi munkatï¿½rsaknak. A gyakorlatban ez azt jelenti, hogy minden templomhoz oda kell rendelni egy helyi vezetï¿½t, de ï¿½t fel kell kï¿½szï¿½teni erre a feladatra. A papok pedig azt csinï¿½ljï¿½k, ami a dolguk. Ne ï¿½k tatarozzï¿½k a templomot, hanem ezt adjï¿½k oda annak, akinek ez a szakmï¿½ja. A pap tartson lelkigyakorlatot, katekï¿½zist, bibliaï¿½rï¿½t.

Igen, kï¿½zï¿½s imï¿½dsï¿½gra a vilï¿½gi is ï¿½ssze tudja hï¿½vni az embereket. Miï¿½rt ne lehetne pï¿½ldï¿½ul minden templomban rorï¿½te pap nï¿½lkï¿½l? De amikor a pap misï¿½zik, akkor tï¿½nyleg misï¿½zzen. Ez alatt azt ï¿½rtem, hogy elï¿½tte ï¿½s utï¿½na legyen ott, beszï¿½lgessen az emberekkel, ne rohanjon tovï¿½bb. De a szemlï¿½letï¿½nkï¿½n is vï¿½ltoztatnunk kellene. Ne ï¿½ljenek abban a tudatban emberek, hogy meg vannak fosztva valamitï¿½l, mert a faluban nincs szentmise. Dinamikus szemlï¿½lettel kellene ï¿½lni. Ha a szomszï¿½d faluban van a vasï¿½rnapi mise, akkor ï¿½ljï¿½n be az autï¿½jï¿½ba vagy fogja a biciklijï¿½t, vagy szï¿½lljon fel a buszra, ï¿½s ï¿½rï¿½ljï¿½n annak, hogy misï¿½re mehet. Ne vï¿½rja tï¿½tott szï¿½jjal a sï¿½lt galambot, ha jï¿½n valaki misï¿½t mondani, akkor megyek misï¿½re. Ez legyen mindnyï¿½junk szï¿½vï¿½gye.

Fontosnak tartom, hogy minden plï¿½bï¿½niï¿½nak legyen lelkipï¿½sztori terve. Ehhez adunk direktï¿½vï¿½kat, amiket helyben kell aktualizï¿½lni. A kï¿½zï¿½ssï¿½gnek pedig fel kell tenni a kï¿½rdï¿½st, mit vï¿½r el tï¿½lï¿½k az adott helyen ï¿½s idï¿½ben az ï¿½risten. Imï¿½dkozzanak ezï¿½rt, gondolkozzanak rajta, ï¿½s beszï¿½ljï¿½k meg. ï¿½t kell gondolni, hogyan foglalkoznak a fiatalokkal, hogyan vï¿½gzik a szentsï¿½gi pasztorï¿½ciï¿½t, a katekumenï¿½tust.ï¿½ Hogyan foglalkoznak a betegekkel, az ï¿½regekkel, a hajlï¿½ktalanokkal? Melyek azok a hangsï¿½lyos pontok, amelyeket ï¿½k abban az egyhï¿½zkï¿½zsï¿½gben el akarnak ï¿½rni? ï¿½s a vï¿½gï¿½re kerï¿½ljï¿½n, hogy milyenre festjï¿½k a kerï¿½tï¿½st. Minden ï¿½v novemberï¿½ben megtartjuk a lelkipï¿½sztori napokat. Mï¿½riabesnyï¿½re hï¿½vjuk meg a papokat ï¿½s vilï¿½giakat. Hï¿½rom napon keresztï¿½l hallgatunk jï¿½ elï¿½adï¿½kat, egyï¿½tt gondolkozunk ï¿½s imï¿½dkozunk, hogy megï¿½rtsï¿½k, mi a dolgunk.

Egyhï¿½zunknak ï¿½rzï¿½kelhetï¿½en jï¿½ a kï¿½zhangulata. A kï¿½zï¿½ssï¿½geink aktï¿½vak. Van egy jï¿½l mï¿½kï¿½dï¿½ kulturï¿½lis kï¿½zpontunk, a Credo hï¿½z. A pï¿½spï¿½ksï¿½gen havonta telthï¿½zas koncertjein vannak. Ugyancsak havonta szervez a Fï¿½rfiszï¿½vetsï¿½g termï¿½nyvï¿½sï¿½rt a pï¿½spï¿½ksï¿½gen. Vï¿½cott ï¿½rezhetï¿½en szimpï¿½tia veszi kï¿½rï¿½l az egyhï¿½zat. De ennek a felelï¿½ssï¿½gï¿½t is ï¿½rzem. ï¿½s ugyanakkor tï¿½relmetlen is vagyok. Mï¿½g tï¿½bb embert kellene megszï¿½lï¿½tani, mï¿½g mindig nem mozdulnak meg igazï¿½n az emberek. Nem annak van itt az ideje, hogy Fatimï¿½ba menjï¿½nk imï¿½dkozni. Itthon is ugyanahhoz a Szï¿½zanyï¿½hoz fordulhatunk. Azzal a pï¿½nzzel inkï¿½bb egymï¿½st segï¿½tsï¿½k. Nem vagyok nagyon nï¿½pszerï¿½ az utazï¿½si irodï¿½knï¿½l, de meggyï¿½zï¿½dï¿½sem, hogy ezt nem szabad csinï¿½lni. Valaki mesï¿½lte, hogy elutazott a Szentfï¿½ldre, fejenkï¿½nt fï¿½lmilliï¿½ forintba kerï¿½lt az ï¿½t. Ez biztosan nem tetszik a Jï¿½istennek. Melyik csalï¿½d engedheti ezt meg magï¿½nak? Ha ez lenne az ï¿½dvï¿½ssï¿½gï¿½nk feltï¿½tele, akkor tessï¿½k befizetni a nagybï¿½rzsï¿½nyi cigï¿½nyasszonyt is. Az ï¿½ngondoskodï¿½s kulcsfogalommï¿½ kellene, hogy vï¿½ljon a mai tï¿½rsadalomban. Nem szabadna mindent vï¿½rni. ï¿½ssze kell kapaszkodni ï¿½s sokkal szerï¿½nyebben kell ï¿½lni. „Isten, a mi Urunknak, Jï¿½zus Krisztusnak Atyja, megï¿½ldott minket minden lelki ï¿½ldï¿½ssal” – minden lehetï¿½sï¿½gï¿½nk megvan, hogy szï¿½pen ï¿½ljï¿½nk, csak tennï¿½nk kell dolgunkat.